tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20267393.post114494397298384276..comments2023-03-25T08:59:31.730-04:00Comments on <center>Non Sequitur's Soap Box</center>: Moral and Spiritual StruggleNonsequiturhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18173868118973875988noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20267393.post-1145150149858691342006-04-15T21:15:00.000-04:002006-04-15T21:15:00.000-04:00Well, it's "Tom" who is the issue here :), but I c...Well, it's "Tom" who is the issue here :), but I can see where the 2 pseudonyms are easily confused given my lengthy, detailed, and occasionally jumbled writing style. He knows (mostly) how I feel and we've talked about it. I've told him that I forgive him... but my heart hasn't followed suit. Maybe it was a mistake to say the words before I was ready. It will happen eventually I'm sure, I just need more time. Thank you for your advice.Nonsequiturhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18173868118973875988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20267393.post-1145067792289551152006-04-14T22:23:00.000-04:002006-04-14T22:23:00.000-04:00First of all, if I may, you don't owe Carl anythin...First of all, if I may, you don't owe Carl anything. So, whatever you do for him at this point is an act of love on your part over and above the call of duty. I am impressed that you allowed yourself to minister to him when he needed it most. I can only imagine how badly you want to tell him how you're feeling about his betrayal, but my suggestion is to just be there when you can, be alone and taking care of your own things when you can; and let him bring the subject up if it's going to come up. I suspect it will. I have no doubt he probably feels a great deal of regret. Your silence is actually much more effective than any argument. My opinion only.Steve Schalchlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08151100118640317860noreply@blogger.com